Sunday, April 22, 2007
So many men are 'acting' like they're men when they don't have any other way to control their nervousness around women. At least those men are doing something compared to other men.
But it usually just turns the women off because they can tell where he's coming from. He is a man but something just isn't congruent. Look..
Being conscious of your own body language and going through the movements of a natural is only acting. Up until now there just weren't any other effective methods to physiological change.
If you look at nonverbal body language and the intuition of women, you should realize that you just can't fake it.
Sure you could 'act' for a little while but eventually the camera's going to be turned off and you won't be in 'character' anymore.
You're going to get caught or 'slip up' around her.
Some men become pick-up artists or 'seducers' who chase women even though they pretend not to be chasing them.
Since they are still afraid of women and taking the wrong relational dynamic for success they have to act.
They put on a front or 'character' of acting. Eventually they start to believe their own B.S. and become someone that they weren't to begin with.
All of this is unnatural and takes a lot of time and effort to change their subconscious beliefs. So what happens is they become someone who is even more unnatural yet succeeds with women a little more often because he inadvertently had something going for him (sex) and gained higher natural character anyways but he took the long route.
Few pick up artists achieve that congruency or level anyways.
You have to approach at least 1000 women by taking that entire relational dynamic.
During this whole time whether they admit it or not, they believe that women are above them and the 'prize' to catch.
Even the ones who say she isn't prize and almost believe it logically, it doesn't matter. Why?
Because their nonverbal body language and their entire approach to seduction is grounded in the fact that she is the prize nonverbally.
He could logically say to 'approach' women and I'm the catch but his body won't believe it. He's been conditioned too strong already to believe that she is really the prize.
Why? Well, should I start naming body parts? How about the scores of men she could theoretically sleep with? How about the emotional fantasies he's had about women with her same ass-ets and attributes?
His mind has so many neural connections in the reality that she is 'above him'. that's why men fail, they're in the wrong relational dynamic.
They're viewing women in the inner and social relational dynamic and that's why they struggle. Women have the power there.
It's not that they don't have power naturally; they have a different kind of power naturally. They have the power to experience unheard of emotion, bliss and physiological response.
Millions of men aren't aware of this true sexuality and thus they are thrown off by the behavior of women. They're conditioned to the wrong stimulus of women.
They have alpha role models of inner and social behavior or 'sexuality' but they're not accurate. They're great models of socio-cultural adaptation but they're not a woman's true sexuality.
At the root of why most pick-up artists fail consistently is that they're in the wrong relational dynamic. They have a social alpha woman (a 'sexy' blonde men's magazine cover girl and others like her) as their model of sexuality.
That is why they fail. They've been conditioned daily (and it still continues even more) to believe that a woman's showcasing of her body is really her sexuality.
They believed the lie because it's all they see in their reality. This sexploitation and the behavioral conditioning involved, influenced their behavior massively.
They can think it through logically but there is too much emotional attribution correlated with desiring her body (as a response to the stimulus). Anything he says or does coming from the subconscious belief and fact of this will still be obvious to the woman where he is coming from.
And if you're the cover model social alpha woman and another 'chode' is 'approaching' you to 'get some' you're going to be ready to turn him down because it's obvious what he wants.
If you're ready for modern behavioral enlightenment as well as a way to have rock-solid success in attracting and communicating with power and beauty, find out more at my websites.
You can try 'body language' techniques but the logic in them and 'acting' ilke you're the man doesn't work.
You have to have something that is REAL and put enough emotional attribution into it to change your nonverbal or subconscious behavior. Inner game is not enough.
You can't 'act' comfortable around women, you have to BE comfortable around women. My full training is priceless and I lead by example.
It's time for cognition and power; a different approach.
A clear way to attract, succeed and operate as a natural even around the most powerful and unnatural women. It's up to you.
But it usually just turns the women off because they can tell where he's coming from. He is a man but something just isn't congruent. Look..
Being conscious of your own body language and going through the movements of a natural is only acting. Up until now there just weren't any other effective methods to physiological change.
If you look at nonverbal body language and the intuition of women, you should realize that you just can't fake it.
Sure you could 'act' for a little while but eventually the camera's going to be turned off and you won't be in 'character' anymore.
You're going to get caught or 'slip up' around her.
Some men become pick-up artists or 'seducers' who chase women even though they pretend not to be chasing them.
Since they are still afraid of women and taking the wrong relational dynamic for success they have to act.
They put on a front or 'character' of acting. Eventually they start to believe their own B.S. and become someone that they weren't to begin with.
All of this is unnatural and takes a lot of time and effort to change their subconscious beliefs. So what happens is they become someone who is even more unnatural yet succeeds with women a little more often because he inadvertently had something going for him (sex) and gained higher natural character anyways but he took the long route.
Few pick up artists achieve that congruency or level anyways.
You have to approach at least 1000 women by taking that entire relational dynamic.
During this whole time whether they admit it or not, they believe that women are above them and the 'prize' to catch.
Even the ones who say she isn't prize and almost believe it logically, it doesn't matter. Why?
Because their nonverbal body language and their entire approach to seduction is grounded in the fact that she is the prize nonverbally.
He could logically say to 'approach' women and I'm the catch but his body won't believe it. He's been conditioned too strong already to believe that she is really the prize.
Why? Well, should I start naming body parts? How about the scores of men she could theoretically sleep with? How about the emotional fantasies he's had about women with her same ass-ets and attributes?
His mind has so many neural connections in the reality that she is 'above him'. that's why men fail, they're in the wrong relational dynamic.
They're viewing women in the inner and social relational dynamic and that's why they struggle. Women have the power there.
It's not that they don't have power naturally; they have a different kind of power naturally. They have the power to experience unheard of emotion, bliss and physiological response.
Millions of men aren't aware of this true sexuality and thus they are thrown off by the behavior of women. They're conditioned to the wrong stimulus of women.
They have alpha role models of inner and social behavior or 'sexuality' but they're not accurate. They're great models of socio-cultural adaptation but they're not a woman's true sexuality.
At the root of why most pick-up artists fail consistently is that they're in the wrong relational dynamic. They have a social alpha woman (a 'sexy' blonde men's magazine cover girl and others like her) as their model of sexuality.
That is why they fail. They've been conditioned daily (and it still continues even more) to believe that a woman's showcasing of her body is really her sexuality.
They believed the lie because it's all they see in their reality. This sexploitation and the behavioral conditioning involved, influenced their behavior massively.
They can think it through logically but there is too much emotional attribution correlated with desiring her body (as a response to the stimulus). Anything he says or does coming from the subconscious belief and fact of this will still be obvious to the woman where he is coming from.
And if you're the cover model social alpha woman and another 'chode' is 'approaching' you to 'get some' you're going to be ready to turn him down because it's obvious what he wants.
If you're ready for modern behavioral enlightenment as well as a way to have rock-solid success in attracting and communicating with power and beauty, find out more at my websites.
You can try 'body language' techniques but the logic in them and 'acting' ilke you're the man doesn't work.
You have to have something that is REAL and put enough emotional attribution into it to change your nonverbal or subconscious behavior. Inner game is not enough.
You can't 'act' comfortable around women, you have to BE comfortable around women. My full training is priceless and I lead by example.
It's time for cognition and power; a different approach.
A clear way to attract, succeed and operate as a natural even around the most powerful and unnatural women. It's up to you.
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