Monday, September 08, 2014
Love Marriage and Arrange Marriage
both has their pro's and con's . Not all love marriage is a heaven and not all is hell...
Nowadays..ppl more prone to have love marriage as nowadays youngsters fall in love so quickly. Its good to have a good love relationship before considering into marriage. As Once in love...they have the world to them. Everything seems to be wonderful but at last dont forget the fact that when ur in the dream of love u tend to forget the importance of a relationship and the way to make it to last. Its important to make ur partner feel ur love strongly. GIve them enough space and make them feel comfortable with u. After marriage..the couples should not compare how they were before the marriage. This only causes problems...Some tend to think that before the marriage (that is when they were lovers)...the partners attitude was different and after marriage it changed. Comparision like this should never happen as this causes problems only.
As for arrange Marriage..u will only know ur partner well after the marriage..There will be some likes and also dislikes...but it can be talked thru..Its sometimes thrilling to find that ur partner has the same taste as u...the love that comes from arranged marriage can be shown in many ways thru hugs, cuddles, kisses and of course at night on bed as they will be having the freedom to do it but its not that all important..the most important is love that you feel, the freedom u have with ur partner and whether u feel comfortable with them r not...TRUST is very important. I have frends who after arranged marriage go thru hell. Its very Important to talk to ur partner before the marriage and if can try to be frends before marriage. As for love marriage...this is not a problem as both parties know each other well (they assume they know well ) and wont have much trouble getting along...
Love your partner and make sure u respect them and give them full trust. Even in arranged marriage..u must get to know the person well before marrying them....to ensure u and ur partner will have a happy loving life together..Its in our hands to make our marriage to be succcessful doesnt matter either its a love marriage or arranged marriage..its WE who make it Happen and by not Blaming others for not making it successful.........Its all in our hands to make a married life successful & miserable irrespective of wether its love marriage or arranged marriage. Life is not a bed of roses...
both has their pro's and con's . Not all love marriage is a heaven and not all is hell...
Nowadays..ppl more prone to have love marriage as nowadays youngsters fall in love so quickly. Its good to have a good love relationship before considering into marriage. As Once in love...they have the world to them. Everything seems to be wonderful but at last dont forget the fact that when ur in the dream of love u tend to forget the importance of a relationship and the way to make it to last. Its important to make ur partner feel ur love strongly. GIve them enough space and make them feel comfortable with u. After marriage..the couples should not compare how they were before the marriage. This only causes problems...Some tend to think that before the marriage (that is when they were lovers)...the partners attitude was different and after marriage it changed. Comparision like this should never happen as this causes problems only.
As for arrange Marriage..u will only know ur partner well after the marriage..There will be some likes and also dislikes...but it can be talked thru..Its sometimes thrilling to find that ur partner has the same taste as u...the love that comes from arranged marriage can be shown in many ways thru hugs, cuddles, kisses and of course at night on bed as they will be having the freedom to do it but its not that all important..the most important is love that you feel, the freedom u have with ur partner and whether u feel comfortable with them r not...TRUST is very important. I have frends who after arranged marriage go thru hell. Its very Important to talk to ur partner before the marriage and if can try to be frends before marriage. As for love marriage...this is not a problem as both parties know each other well (they assume they know well ) and wont have much trouble getting along...
Love your partner and make sure u respect them and give them full trust. Even in arranged marriage..u must get to know the person well before marrying them....to ensure u and ur partner will have a happy loving life together..Its in our hands to make our marriage to be succcessful doesnt matter either its a love marriage or arranged marriage..its WE who make it Happen and by not Blaming others for not making it successful.........Its all in our hands to make a married life successful & miserable irrespective of wether its love marriage or arranged marriage. Life is not a bed of roses...
Love marriage people thinking if only they'd gone for arranged marriage & arranged marriage people thinking if only they'd loved someone before marriage could make life all the more miserable take things easy... don't close ur real eyes when in love...so that when u wake up from ur dream land u might think ur love was a real dream. to have ur dream continuing... fall in love & love the person for what he/she is & make sure u'll like him/her in reality real life.when u go for arranged marriage its almost like u were destined to be hubby & wife. so talk with each other & understand each other. no one in this earth is without flaws. every coin has its other side. take the good things & try to ignore the flaws in a way both of u can accept it guess its easy to advice or say... sure its all a matter of clicking & matter of time to adjust to each other.
In any case we've got a good tradition & a culture...love or arranged marriage... whatever be the case... relation is welcome only after marriage. we've got high moral values for which the other nation ppl envy us. though this is degrading these days...its each of our responsibility to make sure we bring glory to our good old morals & tradition.
posted by JEI @ JEIZONE at 13:10 | 
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